Start living your best life today- the one surprising thing you need

You’ve heard it a thousand times: “live your best life.” But what is the window you need to open to start living your best life today? If you feel like you don’t have the right circumstances, the right resources, or the right time, keep reading. The promise of a better life is become something of a cliché in today’s selfie culture. But the truth is, most people don’t know what that means or how to achieve it. It’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget that life is meant to be enjoyed. Do you focus on what makes you feel you are good enough? Are you doing a very good job of it?

According to the World Health Organization, depression and anxiety disorders are the leading causes of poor mental health worldwide. Why is so much easier to feel that you are not good enough? In this article we are going to explore the myths about living your best life and the one surprising thing you need to start today.

What is holding you back from living your best life today?

One of the most common things that hold people back from living their best life is fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of failure, fear of rejection, and fear of not being good enough are just a few of the fears that can keep us stuck in our comfort zones. However, it’s important to recognize that fear is a natural response to change and uncertainty, and it doesn’t have to control our lives.

Another factor that holds people back is self-doubt. Many of us struggle with feelings of inadequacy and as called “imposter syndrome“, which is not a real medical condition but it can make us second-guess our abilities and limit our potential. It’s essential to challenge these negative self-talk and beliefs, and to recognize and celebrate your strengths.

External factors can also play a significant role in holding you back from living your best life. For example, financial constraints, unsupportive relationships, or lack of access to resources or opportunities can all be obstacles to your growth and success. However, it’s important to remember that you can always find creative solutions and alternatives, and to seek help or support when needed.

Personally, I have to accept that sometimes, I am the one holding myself back. Procrastination, self-sabotage, and lack of motivation can all prevent us from taking action towards our goals and dreams. In these cases, it’s important to identify the root cause of your resistance and to develop strategies to overcome it, such as breaking down tasks into manageable steps or finding an accountability partner or start writing in your journal.

There will always be many factors to hold you back from living your best lives- if you allow it. You have the power to overcome them. Recognizing and challenging your fears, self-doubt, external obstacles, and self-sabotaging behaviors, you can re-imagine your life, retrain your brain, create a new path where you feel at home. With no delay. Ask yourself what is holding you back from living your best life today?

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Unleashing the power of intentional living today

You will be surprised to know that what is holding back from living your best life today has nothing to do with material possessions, career success, or even finding your soulmate. It all comes down to the power of now. That’s right, the present moment is the key to unlocking a fulfilling life. We spend so much time worrying about the future or dwelling on the past that we forget to enjoy the beauty of the moment we’re in. We think that we’ll be happy once we achieve certain goals or acquire certain things, but that’s a fallacy. Happiness is not a destination, it’s a journey, and it starts with being present.

Studies have shown that being present in the moment can improve your mental health and overall well-being. Mindfulness, the practice of being fully present and engaged in the present moment, has been shown to reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. According to a study published in the Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, employees who were more mindful reported lower levels of burnout and job stress.

Living in the present moment doesn’t mean you have to abandon your goals or stop planning for the future. Living your best life today is about opening a window into your soul and discover a new world of possibilities. It simply means that you need to be mindful of the present moment and enjoy the journey. It means savoring the taste of your coffee, feeling the sun on your face, and enjoying the company of the people you’re with. It means being fully engaged in the moment, instead of worrying about what comes next.

If you want to start living your best life, you need to start living in the present moment. Don’t let the past or the future rob you of the joy of the moment you’re in. Take a deep breath, let go of your worries, and be present. You’ll be amazed at how much more fulfilling life can be when you start living in the now.

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What steps can you take to overcome these obstacles and start living the life you deserve?

In a world that is constantly moving and changing, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that our lives will only truly begin once we achieve a certain level of success, find the perfect partner, or move to the ideal location. However, the truth is that life is happening right now, in this very moment, and it’s up to us to embrace it fully.

It’s natural to have dreams and aspirations for the future, but when we become too focused on these things, we run the risk of missing out on the beauty and opportunities that are right in front of us. We may find ourselves holding back, waiting for the “perfect” time or circumstances to fully commit to our goals or to begin living our lives to the fullest.

But the reality is that there is no such thing as a perfect time or situation. Life is unpredictable and there are no guarantees, so if we continue to hold back, we may never fully bloom and reach our true potential.

Instead, we must learn to embrace the present moment and all that it has to offer. We must learn to bloom where we are planted, to take root and open our hearts fully to the opportunities and experiences that are available to us right now.

This doesn’t mean that we should give up on our dreams or stop working towards our goals. It simply means that we should learn to live in the moment, to appreciate what we have and to make the most of every opportunity that comes our way.

We must learn to override our tendency to hold back and to say yes to life, to be brave and commit fully to ourselves and our dreams. We must learn to be vulnerable and to embrace ourselves and our lives exactly as they are right now, without conditions or expectations.

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Removing the myth about what you need to live your best life today

We all have been conditioned, for some time now, that the opportunity you seek is “out there” on social media and downloading more apps than sense, will give you that opportunity. Perhaps you already hace more apps than even your own phone can hold, all on the cloud, from finding love or a dream job to finding your ideal clients. I have good news: I do not use many apps but even if you do, you know better than me that this is just half of the truth. Like any half truths, an app is not going to give you what you want. So, ask yourself:

What do you need start living your best life today? What is the window of opportunity you missed so far?

While many of us are held back from living our best life because we feel like we don’t have the right circumstances, the right resources, or the right time, the truth is that less is more and time is really flying, taking your best years away. Do you really believe there will never be a perfect time to start living your best life? You have to create that perfect time with what you have and you already have everything you need. And more!

While we are on the same page here, why not get on the wave of self-discovery and start seeing yourself for your true worth. You are not born to find the next opportunity. You are the opportunity you seek.

The window of opportunity can take many forms. It could be an invitation to try something new, a chance to connect with someone who inspires you, or a moment of realization that you need to make a change. Whatever it is, it’s up to you to recognize it and take advantage of it.

Sometimes the window of opportunity may be disguised as a challenge or a setback. Maybe you’ve experienced a job loss or a relationship breakup, and you feel like your life is falling apart. But these moments can also be the catalyst for positive change. They can be the wake-up call you need to start living your best life.

To open the window of opportunity, you need to be open to new experiences, willing to take risks, and ready to step outside of your comfort zone. You also need to have a clear vision of what you want your best life to look like. This doesn’t mean that you need to have every detail mapped out, but you should have a general sense of what is important to you and what you want to achieve.

Once you have identified the window of opportunity and have a clear vision of what you want, it’s time to take action. This could mean taking a class, networking with new people, or starting a new project. It could also mean letting go of old habits, beliefs, or relationships that are holding you back.

It’s important to remember that opening the window of opportunity is not a one-time event. It’s an ongoing process that requires commitment, courage, and persistence. But the rewards are worth it. By opening the window of opportunity into your own soul, you can start living your best life today, and create a future that is filled with joy, fulfillment, and purpose.

You already have everything you need- why not start live your best life today? The only challenge is to be consistent. Living your best life requires self-discipline. Why not Start today and repeat the same tomorrow and the day after tomorrow? Let me know how far you go in the next 21 days.

what do you need to start living the best life you want to have today? Photo by Toa Heftiba
Dr Marina Nani
Dr Marina Nani

Editor-in-Chief of Rich Woman Magazine, founder of Sovereign Magazine, author of many books, Dr Marina Nani is a social edification scientist coining a new industry, Social Edification.
Passionately advocating to celebrate your human potential, she is well known for her trademark "Be Seen- Be Heard- Be You" running red carpet events and advanced courses like Blog Genius®, Book Genius®, Podcast Genius®, the cornerstones of her teaching.
The constant practitioner of good news, she founded MAKE THE NEWS
( MTN) with the aim to diagnose and close the achievement gap globally.
Founder of many publications, British Brands with global reach Marina believes that there is a genius ( Stardust) in each individual, regardless of past and present circumstances.
"Not recognising your talent leaves society at loss. Sharing the good news makes a significant difference in your perception about yourself, your industry and your community."

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