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title: "2025’s Best Matchmaking Professional: The Passion For Finding Love Behind Mother And Daughter Bond"
description: A mother–daughter team reshapes matchmaking with psychology-led insight and coaching, blending family trust and leadership to build lasting relationships.
author: Dr Marina Nani (Editor-in-Chief)
date: 2025-08-18T09:39:42.000Z
updated: 2026-09-24T22:52:11.773Z
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categories: Female leadership
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publication: Rich Woman Magazine
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There’s something quietly surreal about spending every working day helping strangers fall in love whilst sitting across the desk from your own [daughter](https://richwoman.co/article/breaking-the-emotional-triangle-a-fresh-stepparenting-view-on-belonging-and-building-real-bon). For Sherri Murphy, this has been reality for more than two decades now; she and Tammi Pickle have built their matchmaking practice around the simple fact that they understand each other completely, and that understanding spills over into everything they do for their clients.

More than three decades in matchmaking isn’t an accident. Murphy founded [Elite Connections International](https://eliteconnections.com/) back in 1994, after meeting her own husband through a matchmaker – proof, she says, that the process actually works when done properly. What started as one woman’s belief in the possibility of finding real connection has grown into something much more complex, involving background checks, psychology consultations and the kind of detailed client interviews that can stretch for hours.

The heart of it remains remarkably personal though. Tammi joined the family business full-time after earning her psychology degree, bringing with her both the academic framework to understand human behaviour and the particular insight that comes from watching your mum work with people’s most vulnerable hopes for years.

## More Than Just Colleagues

Working with family changes everything about a job, especially when that job involves other people’s deepest fears about being alone. ‘Tammi describes Sherri as her mentor,’ according to their company materials, but the relationship between them goes far beyond typical workplace mentorship. They finish each other’s sentences during client consultations, anticipate each other’s questions, and have developed an almost telepathic awareness of when one needs the other to step in.

Tammi now serves as Vice President of Elite Connections, but titles matter less than the way they move around each other in their shared workspace. One handles the initial psychological assessment whilst the other focuses on practical concerns like [coaching on clothes, grooming, photo shoots and dating advice](https://www.thetop100magazine.com/murphy-pickle). It’s a division of labour that emerged naturally over years of working side by side, rather than anything formally planned.

The psychology degree matters, certainly. Tammi brings academic rigour to understanding client behavioural traits, helping both mother and daughter provide what they call meaningful matches rather than simple introductions. But there’s something else at play – the particular intimacy of [family members who’ve chosen to spend their professional lives together](https://richwoman.co/article/three-great-american-women-how-a-mother-and-her-daughters-found-their-way-forward-after-one-b), creating space for other people to find the same kind of deep connection.

## What Clients Don’t See

Behind the polished exterior of any matchmaking service lies a web of relationships with life coaches, dating specialists, image consultants and psychologists. For Murphy and Pickle, this network represents more than professional contacts – it’s the infrastructure that makes their [nearly 100% success rate](https://calbizjournal.com/the-matchmakers/) possible.

What their clients probably don’t realise is how much of this coordination happens through the particular shorthand that develops between [family members who work together](https://richwoman.co/article/empathy-at-the-heart-how-amy-peterson-is-rewriting-the-rules-of-legacy-building). When Sherri spots a client who needs confidence coaching, Tammi already knows which specialist to call. When Tammi identifies psychological patterns that might sabotage a relationship, Sherri has already started thinking about how to address them practically.

This isn’t the glossy version of matchmaking that appears in films – all champagne and dramatic reveals. It’s more like extended therapy, with mother and daughter taking turns to hold space for people who’ve often spent years convinced they’re fundamentally unlovable. The psychology training helps, but so does the lived experience of watching someone you love navigate relationships, make mistakes, [learn and try again](https://richwoman.co/article/moving-people-the-woman-who-knows-how-to-start-over).

Their approach extends far beyond simple compatibility matching. Clients work with them on everything from personal styling to communication skills, with both women contributing different strengths to each case. It’s comprehensive in a way that only makes sense when you have two people who trust each other completely and can divide responsibility without ego or territorial concerns.

## Recognition That Matters

When Aurora DeRose, award coordinator for the Best of Los Angeles Award, says that Sherri ‘truly demonstrates the creativity and dedication that this award represents,’ she’s recognising something that goes beyond professional competence. The [Best of Los Angeles Award community](https://www.facebook.com/BestofLosAngelesAward/) includes over 7,800 professionals across Southern California, all supposedly committed to upholding high standards of quality and integrity.

What sets Murphy apart isn’t just her three decades in the field or her success rate – it’s the way that working with her daughter has deepened rather than complicated her commitment to the work. The award feels personal precisely because the work has always been personal, rooted in [family relationships that strengthen rather than undermine professional boundaries](https://richwoman.co/article/candice-kelly-the-florida-mum-mixing-grit-and-heart-to-lift-others-up).

For Murphy, receiving recognition like the [Best of Los Angeles Award for Best Professional Matchmaker](https://www.wjhl.com/business/press-releases/ein-presswire/805675633/esmond-associates-inc-wins-best-of-los-angeles-award-best-cpa-firm-2025/) represents validation not just of her own career, but of the decision to build a business around family relationships. It’s confirmation that the risk of mixing personal and professional bonds can actually create something stronger than either would be alone.

The timing matters too. As Tammi prepares to take on greater leadership responsibility, with plans to expand Elite Connections nationally and internationally, this recognition arrives as a marker of transition. Mother preparing to hand over more responsibility to daughter, daughter ready to build on three decades of foundation her mum has laid.

## The Long Game

What does it actually feel like to spend decades helping other people make the connections that matter most, whilst working alongside someone whose connection to you runs deeper than any professional partnership could? Murphy and Pickle have made this question the centre of their working lives, without ever really answering it directly.

Perhaps the answer lies in their [success stories](https://eliteconnections.com/elite-advantage/) – the engagements, marriages and long-term relationships that have emerged from their client roster. Or perhaps it’s simpler than that: two people who understand each other completely, using that understanding to help others find the same thing.

There’s something quietly radical about choosing to spend your professional life this way. Most family businesses are built around products or services that feel safely separate from the emotional core of what it means to be related to someone. Matchmaking offers no such separation – it’s all emotion, all vulnerability, all hope that connection is possible even when it seems impossible.

For Murphy and Pickle, working together has become both method and message. They’re living proof that deep professional partnerships can emerge from family bonds, whilst simultaneously helping their clients discover that meaningful relationships are worth the risk of trying again. It’s a long game that requires patience, skill and the particular kind of trust that only develops between people who’ve chosen each other not once, but repeatedly, in contexts both professional and personal.

Unlike stories of [families torn apart by conflict and competing interests](https://richwoman.co/article/knowing-when-to-fight-the-human-cost-of-family-warfare-in-the-family-break-ups-storms), theirs is about what happens when family bonds actually make professional work stronger. It’s about [building something meaningful that goes beyond individual success](https://richwoman.co/article/the-ripple-effect-of-authentic-leadership-how-one-woman-s-vision-sparked-the-path-to-self-mas) – something that depends entirely on the trust and understanding that can only come from loving someone enough to risk working with them every single day.